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Submitted by Spinner4Dinner on Friday - April 18, 2008
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As we surf the profiles and check them out.. Is it me.. or is something wrong..
You see single males saying they play safe.. yet they have pictures of themselves inside different women without the condom.. and there are many couples that have pictures with different people there doing without the use of them too.. so.. how safe are you?
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By: reggiegirl2006 (Female) on Saturday - August 30, 2008
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I AGERR SLEAVE IT OR LEAVE IT IS WHAT WE TELL OUT TEENAGE SON WHO IS NOT SEUALLY ACTIVE YET ... HE HAS GONE TO THE DR WITH MY HASBAND AND WITH ME AS WELL AND WE HAVE HAD HIM TALK TO THE DR AND HAS SEEN PICS ON WAHT MOST OF THE JUNK OUT THERE CAN DO TO YOU ... SO EVIN ORAL SEX GLOVE IT AND FOR THE YOUNG WOMEN TRY HAVING YOU MAN USE A FE MALE CONDOM WHEN PREFORMING ORAL SEX ON YOU ... NOW THERES NO EXCUSES.... SLEAVE IT OR LEAVE IT.........
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By: thethickness (Female) on Monday - April 28, 2008
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With all we have all seen in this lifestyle, we know enough to know that not everyone plays safe. Condoms for intercourse are a must, but very few use them for oral sex. I suppose it has to do with being selective in your partnerships, being safe, tested reguarly, clean, and honest with all parties involved, as trust is the foundation this lifestyle is built upon.
Oh yea, and CaliBoy408 gets a GoldStar :P
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By: hotboo on Monday - April 28, 2008
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damn i'll have to get on that.......thanks!
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By: hotboo on Saturday - April 26, 2008
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we have a padded headboard....does that count as safer sex?
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By: caliboy408 (Male) on Friday - April 25, 2008
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Well... lets see I'm a single male with unsafe acts caught on film.... My response is like this. I haven't always been a single male. I was introduced into this lifestyle by my ex wife and yes we play unsafe and yes we took pictures and made movies.. It was hot!!... If i'm in a committed relationship and we are both been tested then YAY!! we play unsafe... I'm strict with playing safe with couples or single females on here... I get tested alot I know i'm clean.... some have seen me shower on cam :-) and I have children, so I need to be safe and be responsible for them.
I've been approached by couples on BC and I'm always upfront with the do's or don'ts (the rules) before it even get that far and more often then not one of the rules are don't cum in my wife.... I respond with I'm wearing protection so It will not happen... But were they saying that because I didn't need to wear a condom.... It pretty much stops after that... I play safe!! I want a gold star
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By: Petrichor (Male) on Friday - April 25, 2008
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A condom doesn't make you safe and bareback doesn't make you unsafe.
I use judgment, then condoms, and then go natural as the level of trust increases. Just like any "vanilla" relationship we've all been in. Am I safe? I think so.
Condoms come off if they're too big and break if they're too small and I defy you to pay attention in the heat of battle. And let's not even talk about the sneak attacks men pull. Women do it, too, I know from experience.
How much porn do you watch where they don't use condoms? Do you think they're being careless and unsafe? If so, you're fooling yourselves.
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By: CuriousCouplein30s (Male) on Thursday - April 24, 2008
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I've been arguing with that umpire every time I see him...
I was safe dammit!
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By: Ticaboo on Thursday - April 24, 2008
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we refuse service to anyone we may have otherwise been interested in who we know has not played safe.
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By: thick (Male) on Thursday - April 24, 2008
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NO GLOVE NO LOVE WAS WITH CPL THAT SHAL REMAIN NAMELESS WANTED BARE BACK ABOUT 3MONTHS BACK AND THEY WER REALY MAKING A BIG ABOUT SAFE SEX?I JUST PUT MY PANTS ON AND LEFT WAS KINDA THINKING THAT I WAS BEING UP TITE BUT SAFE IS SAFE ?
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By: eastbaysexy (Female) on Wednesday - April 23, 2008
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I use condoms all the time!!! thats how safe i am.
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By: sexymami34 on Wednesday - April 23, 2008
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Also having unprotected oral and anal sex.. For more information you can ask your family physician for a pamphlet or go to a free clinic in your area! Condoms can also break then your "f----"!
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By: sexymami34 on Wednesday - April 23, 2008
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Great topic choice!
CONDOMS should be used 100%! I've come across quite a few ads here on BC and the couples say they are allergic to latex, free of STD's, don't take someone's word that they are "disease free, clean." Protect yourselves when having sex with strangers!
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By: EuroMan (Male) on Sunday - April 20, 2008
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If you're not using a condom with anybody but your trusted partner - you're asking to get a major dicease sooner or later and you deserve it. I see it a lot, even in clubs.
However, there are many other ways how to get less seriouse STDs like herpes, warts, HPV, etc. And there is very little that you can do to protect yourself from that with a condom. That's where your judgement comes in. Ask the right questions and get to know your new partners at least a little before you decide to play.
Read my blog for more - I have a whole page written about the safety in the lifestyle and how few of us practice it for REAL.
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By: Coupleforfun06 (Couple) on Sunday - April 20, 2008
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Wow! You notice the multiple partners with no glove also. Nice, since I was thinking maybe I study the pics to hard. LOL Take disease and pregnancy out of the equation... for us, it is one thing we keep sacred between ourselves within our lovemakeing since being in the lifestyle, we do share physical sexual sides with others.
Wow! I think I just admitted we have sex with other people. OMG!
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By: strutter (Couple) on Saturday - April 19, 2008
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No glove...........No love!!!! Simple uh?
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By: JaydubAndElle (Couple) on Saturday - April 19, 2008
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We're safe... we have a home security system and a good anti-virus software... we're safe!!!
Oh, playing, sorry Kimmy. When we're with others we only play safe... condoms for intercourse. If someone suggests otherwise, the playtime for the evening is most likely over, done, finis, kaput.
We're not always safe... we love riding the two-wheel vehicle and people say we're not being safe on the road...
J&L
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