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Lady on the street, but a freak in the bed...
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Submitted by EuroMan (Male) on Tuesday - August 1, 2006
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Ludacris was right! "We want a lady in the street but a freak in the bed". And it's true! Most guys want a girl who is sweet and adorable outside of the bedroom and a complete slut inside of one. A kind of a girl who'll wear a nice long skirt to properly cover up her legs when going to visit your parents for dinner. Yet have a little piece of her thong sticking out of it to remind you of all the dirty things she'll want you to do to her underneath that skirt once you're back home.
The fact is the word "slut" is not longer a bad word. What's so bad about being sexually free, knowing how to satisfy your man, and showing off your body? For some girls not being called a "slut" in a heat of a moment in bed could actually get them offended. And it's not like the definition of the word has changed. It never has. It's just men came to realize that they would rather have a girl who loves sex and knows what she's doing in bed than a girl whose wildest sexual encounter was masturbating in the living room to Mr. Big on the episode of "Sex and the City".
Every girl wants to be a slut for her man in one way or another. Look at the way girls dress now days. Low cut jeans that show off their butt cracks, lower back tattoos that draw attention to those very butt cracks, low cut tops that leave very little to imagination, belly rings, tongue rings, and so many other accessories in today's sexy girl's arsenal. Clothes that used to be considered slutty are now daily ware for most women. For example, a decade ago only hookers used to wear boots and mini-skirts. Now when you see a girl wearing it in a club - you're thinking "This is not a church, girl! Wear something sexy for crowing out loud!" When I meet a girl and we start dating, I always ask her if she'd like me to suggest some outfits for her to wear when we're going out ( or staying in ). Most girls gladly accept the offer and take my suggestions, which as you probably could tell are never conservative. A girl knows that if she wears what her guy thought up for her - she is guaranteed to know that she looks great for him and that'll make her night.
When I meet a girl and the conversation steers towards how many sexual partners we both had in the past, I always hope her number is in double digits. Of course, there is a limit to everything and I don't want her number to equal to the population of a small country. However, if a girl only had a hand full of partners - I know it's very likely ( though there are some exceptions ) there is nothing that she can possibly do that'll even closely satisfy a freak like me in bed. She just hasn't had enough experiences to learn how to satisfy her man, and probably even how to truly satisfy herself. Leaving a light on during sex could be as "freaky" as she's willing to get in bed.
As many of my friends find out more about me and the horny bastard that I am, they start asking questions and, in some cases, advice. When that happens I feel very weird and honored at the same time. I feel like their own personal Dr. Ruth ( but with much cuter ass ). One of the people who has recently approached me for some advice was a friend of mine and his wife. Most of the time when people ask sex advice the answer to their problems is usually whether divorce, Viagra or a threesome. Not in this case. The complaint actually came from the wife and she was pretty upset about the fact that her husband wasn't treating her like a slut in bed. When I asked what it is that she wanted him to do, she said that she wanted to be taken in the dirtiest filthiest way on the back of their car. She wanted him to just push her inside of it while they were coming from a party or some other event and fuck her without even pulling down her skirt.
I'm not gonna bore you with the rest of the conversation that we had that night, but the point is that much like this stay home mom, many girls want to be taken in a dirty way by their guys and feel like sluts while doing it. The reasoning is different for everybody. Some girls want to be "that girl in the porn video that he watches all the time", some girls just like to feel that their sexually attractive, some girls want to cater to their man's needs and fantasies, and some girls just have dirty dirty minds on their own. Those are the girls that I personally love to be with. They are usually up to any dirty fantasy that you think up for them, or they can come up with a few of their own.
This one girl that I started to date was becoming more of a fuck buddy than a girlfriend. We both knew it and were both OK with it. Sex was too good to do anything else outside of the bedroom ( except for an occasional trip to the pharmacy to get more condoms ). We have only fucked a couple of times, but I could see that she was a little freak. We didn't get to the stage of me calling her a slut in bed yet. I'm still usually pretty careful with that word as not all girls like it ( some prefer to be called "whores" or "bitches" ). One day she was coming to my place for our third session of dirty monkey sex as she's text messaged me that she was running a little late. That was fine, but I decided to take an opportunity to use the "s" word to see how she felt about it. So, my text message back to her was "ok but b ready to get fucked like a dirty slut when u get here". I pressed SEND and waited anxiously for a reply. She got back to me with "and a dirty slut u shall get". Yes!!! She was perfect! And I was gonna live up to my word too. As soon as she showed up at my place and I've opened a door to her, I didn't even let her say "hi". I just grabbed her and pinned her against the wall while my hand slipped under her skirt and worked its way up to her already wet pussy. Then I turned her around and pushed her down onto my couch, lifted up her skirt, pushed her thong to the side and shoved my cock inside of her. Then I've continued having my dirty way with her without saying a word. Later, she told me that it was the hottest thing anybody has ever done to her.
One thing I'm still not sure of though. Are women now enjoy putting effort into catering to their men's sexually more than before, or are women minds are becoming as sexual and dirty as men's minds are? The funny thing is not only that I'm not sure about which one it is, I'm not even sure if I care either way.
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By: pastrycream on Wednesday - November 26, 2008
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SWEET!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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By: vinsondarla (Couple) on Saturday - November 1, 2008
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Would u be willing to let my husband fuck you and me do some things to u too, but i'm not bisexual
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By: sweetlady4fun (Female) on Tuesday - October 7, 2008
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I've always hated the "double standard." If a man has sex with many women, he's a STUD and that's considered a compliment but if a women has sex with many men, she's called a SLUT, which until recently had a negative meaning.
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By: mauispydergirl (Female) on Friday - August 3, 2007
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I am absolutly a slut and love to be called one. Cunt is my favorite word and I love to have mine banged by an adept cock. Any man I fuck can expect to be well serviced
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By: muneca (Female) on Wednesday - October 25, 2006
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It just as you pointed out, it is no longer tabu for women to admit they love sex. We love to experiment, we love sex often if not more than men etc. Before if u admitted to that, u were labeled & looked upon as a freak or a whore or slut but in the negative definition. But who were those comments coming from??? You men...now u wised up and finally figured it out... sex is for all to enjoy, as we all see fit,, w/o being judged or labeled.
Now what we have is freer more sexual, sensual and experimental women who are not afraid of being judge or of their sexual needs and guess what everyone's a winner.... you now have u'r freak in the bed and then some.. i don't hear any complaints... LOL...
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By: fotoMOJO (Male) on Thursday - October 19, 2006
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The saying goes, "lady on the streets, but a slut between the sheets".
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By: angel4275 on Wednesday - August 9, 2006
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I totally agree with what Spinner said. I wanted to say something along the same lines, but just couldn't think of a nice way to say it. :)
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By: Spinner4Dinner (Female) on Wednesday - August 9, 2006
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EuroMan,
After reading both of your blogs, in my opinion it seems to be a trend of you being in control about your
wants, needs and fantasy's. With turning it around with this is what the female wanted and needed.
I do understand this is your view on what your desires are from a woman and that she has told you how great it was. We are good at that................ he he
As a female who was raised only by her mother. There are many of us who do enjoy being nasty and pleasing our partners and being pleased at the same time, females that I do know enjoy taking over in the control department and letting men or partner(s) know what is wanted, how it is wanted and when it is wanted.
We all have our desires on what (WE) each want and need and some of us are lucky enough to have a person in our lives to make us happy.
In closing, why ask a question you do not care about?
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