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lydiaandchris [Couple in 510]
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[What's this?]
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3 pictures found for user lydiaandchris:
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[12=19-09 We gave up on this site for a while for various reasons, but someone's message brought us back. We've updated our profile to be current and accurate. We would like to give fair warning though that this time of year can get very busy, so we may need extra time to reply to e-mails and things. It's nothing personal.]
Sorry about the novel here, but it cuts down on mis-matches. If you read the whole thing and still like what you see, at least we won't have many surprises. Please message us if you think we might click! Most profiles here are short, and it's hard to gauge what people are really into from one short paragraph, so we don't contact a lot of people, but we are GREAT about responding. Also, feel free to hotlist us if you wish, but we're not going to message you just because you hotlisted us--drop us a line if you want to talk. We don't bite (Unless you ask really nicely....)
[We still haven't done our BayCouples photo shoot to get some new pictures up. We just not so great with the procrastination, and life is happening at full speed these days. We have further pics available if you like our profile, and we can take current pics if requested. Just ask. These aren't nudes, just something to give you an idea what we look like. Please don't pressure us for that kind of picture to start--the answer will be no. Too many weirdos looking for cheap thrills. We'll make sure you can see our body type and faces if that's what you want. If you're on the level, there might be naughtier pics to be arranged.]
No single guys or coupled men playing alone. Thank you, but we're not interested. We'll expect to chat with "her" pretty early on in the process--before we meet and greet for sure.
She is 5'9" 140. HWP. Late twenties. Latin, has a bob haircut and amazing brown eyes. Her body is VERY responsive and she has been known to cum just from a hot breath across the neck. He is 5'6" 170 with a lot of upper body muscle. Early thirties, but looks like mid twenties. Caucasian. He has tongue and ear piercings, and loves going down on women--really really loves it. Neither of us have tattoos (because of our jobs) but are tattoo friendly. We are both well groomed (everywhere) and hope for the same. Neither of us smokes or does drugs. We prefer non-smokers, but it's not an automatic deal-breaker if other things click well. We both drink very occasionally (him almost never). We are new to this site and swinging specifically but not to public sex, group sex, or non-monogamy in general so we have experience communicating and are low drama.
Non-negotiable:
-We are clean and disease free, and we expect the same.
-We might have a drink to loosen up, but will be playing mostly sober and expect the same. We don't care what you do in your lives, but please be mostly sober when you play with us. (We don't begrudge a drink or two, but Chris will actually get turned off if people are too drunk or high.) We are drug free ourselves.
-She will not play without him period. PERIOD. This includes couples who try to "edge out" the other male and just have a threesome. (We will not be doing "turns" having threesomes until/unless we know you won't disappear when it's our turn.) Right now she won't even play with women without him.
-He follows her lead regarding level of play and speed of progression. Her veto or slowdown is unconditional.
-Condoms for intercourse are a must. Further safer sex depends on negotiation, trust, and what YOU feel comfortable with. We sometimes use barriers for oral and sometimes don't depending on who we're with, trust, cleanliness, their wishes, and other factors--certainly we don't mind if this is YOUR preference. (However we don't usually have dental dams handy, so come prepared or let us know.)
-We are drama free and expect the same. We are very committed to each other.
-We will not send you nude pictures before we've verified that you are real people who are interested and interesting. (A physical meeting.) We will send you pictures to give you a good idea of what we look like--face and body--and we can go from there. After we've met, that might be kind of fun.
-Discretion is a must . We both work in conservative jobs. (Part of why we're careful about pictures.) If you're wide open, great, but please don't share about us. If you "have no secrets," maybe we're not the best match.
-If you make a date, be there. We will. We're a little put off by how many flakes there seem to be on this site, but we'll give you the benefit of the doubt--don't let us down!
VERY much preferred but possibly negotiable:
-We want play in the same room. She's going to have a noticeably better time if we're all together. She's an exhibitionist and a voyeur, so together is much, MUCH better. We might consider separate rooms, but only rarely.
-She is a "reverse" size queen. Too big is uncomfortable, and painful, so you're going to scare her off with pictures of a cock that looks like Godzilla attacking Tokyo. A big cock is not a deal-breaker if you can go slow and use lots of foreplay, but please play nice if you're bigger.
-At this time she is only interested in playing with women if there's a good possibility that it might lead to something involving him. She has played a lot without him, and at this time doesn't want to feel like she's leaving him behind. Once everyone's had their cookies, she might play without him once in a while, but first she wants him to have some fun. One exception to this would be if men were watching the girls play in a soft swap situation. That's okay.
Negotiable:
-Full swap, soft swap or anything in between... Fall into a puppy pile of group sex... Parallel play and just watch each other... Girls playing while guys watch... Revolving threesomes... It's all good. We're flexible, and we like many flavors of fun. We're not out there with an agenda. If you have limits--or if you don't--we can accommodate. Let's have some fun.
-We sometimes play on the first date and sometimes don't. It depends on how the chemistry is. (Honestly sometimes we don't even make it out for the drinks, and sometimes we forage a whole friendship first--it REALLY depends.) If you're looking to seal the deal we CAN be seduced, but we are CERTAINLY okay if *YOU* don't play on the first date. If you are looking for guaranteed action or just a play date with absolutely no strings attached, let us know that's what you're into ahead of time, and we'll let you know if we are too. We will gauge our interest accordingly, and be open and honest with you. Be warned, though: she tends to be very picky about guys she will fuck without getting to know first. VERY picky.
-She is very, very Bi. It is not required, but girl-on-girl play will really get her very, VERY excited. He is straight but not rigid about it. (He's not going to freak out if the men are touching or something.) A bi or bi curious woman is not a must, but she would really love it if that might be something possible.
-One shot, no strings deals are fine. We are always in the market for some good, hot fun. However, we would also love to meet people who might be into repeat performances. Trust, comfort, and candid communication can make even casual hot sex that much hotter, but those things don't really happen when people are first meeting each, and are just a bundle of nerves. If you think you might be up for for some friends with benefits who get together once in a while (if everyone clicks and the chemistry is right, of course) we might be into this.
-We can host, but our place is not ideal for it. We might be buying a house soon, but right now we're still in an apartment, so top of the lung screaming isn't really an option. We also don't have a king sized bed (yet).
-We can be a little kinky if you want. We're not going to list everything we might be willing to try if chemistry and trust are right, but suffice to say that we're very open minded folks. (Inquire within if interested--this profile is long enough already.) Regular old fashioned sex is awesome too, so don't worry if kinky is not your thing.
Mostly, if you work within the few non-negotiable things, we're pretty open to whatever might happen. If you are still interested please don't hesitate to drop us a line. (SERIOUSLY PLEASE CONTACT US!!!) We're better about replying than initiating contact because it's hard to tell what people are about in most of these profiles. We don't know what you're about, but now that you know what we're about, drop us a line if we sound like a fit.
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Last contact in the past 3 months
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