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Could someone tell me where it went?....
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Submitted by jorgeagomezt on Thursday - August 19, 2010
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The other day when i was ordering my Porshe hybrid, I got a txt that was kind of rude saying: "Show me your dick", it was from a girl-friend of mine that was joking around, but after reflexing about that innocent question I make to You people the next question:
"Where did the respect and humble went , when you try to reach someone here?"
People that know me, for sure knows that I always like to create polemic, so now I want to know what you think, as woman, as couple and as person when someone that you have never met before in your life approaches to you with comments like "Show me your tits" or "Send me a pic of your dick".
Yes , yes , I know that we are in a sex site, but that doesnt make us animals no? At least in my way of being , I send an email, no reply well, try to reach by IM and honestly i got a couple times the classic finger and in the most common words without knowing me "F..k Off", and I totally respect that, but well, at least I reached politely, not as a jerk.
So, next time that you want to reach someone, think HOW YOU WOULD LIKE TO BE REACHED AND RESPECTED.
As always your comments are always welcome here and would like to know if u have been in those situations and what have u done to avoid them again.
As always all yours and lets try to keep the site up no? :)
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By: dontwannadoright (Female) on Sunday - January 9, 2011
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Preach on... I am not an animal, unless you want me to be. .
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By: shakti on Monday - August 30, 2010
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I actually get disgusted (most of the time, there are some rare exceptions) at a message from someone whose first picture is a dick pic... because that is what i get on the icon in my inbox... unless i *asked* to see your dick - NO THANKS! (ok again unless it is really impressive, and even then, have a personality and some style to go with that equipment).
I've had people attach unsolicited dick pics as a form of first contact. Some, very very very unappealing. To me it feels like someone just flashed me, and not in a hot sexy way either. So while I don't respond well to crude first-moves, pictures of genitals, to me, are horribly offensive, unless (again), i specifically asked for a pic of your dick. (which is not how i approach someone, obviously).
Though I do have some compassion for how frustrated the guys on here get, I'm pretty sure "hey wanna fuck" didn't get anyone much action, here or anywhere else (well at least not coming from a dude to a woman). *And* it seems like some guys are getting all the play they can handle, while others are not. Perhaps those who *are* getting play are doing something right. (Or have a wider range for whom they are willing to go to bed with, of course.)
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By: Strawberryanise on Saturday - August 28, 2010
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Any moron jackass can jump on here, create a profile and send instant messages.
We love the sexual tension and excitement of meeting new people here, but to meet peeps and make great friendships is such an awesome bonus! I guess the term "Stranger" has different meanings for different people, but we like to get to know people and we like A LOT of foreplay. People who send us IMs with a statement like that, at least if I (Anise) responded, would get a really smart ass, snarky remark back from me, like "Is it ok if I stick a garden hose up your ass?" Are you kidding me?! At least be curious as to who I am!
I think it comes down to the fact that, yes we are all on here for sex, but most people on here I think want to be treated with respect and that means approaching them with sensitivity and real concern about what THEY want to hear, feel, sense, etc. Comments like "Send me a pic of your dick" don't say anything to the recipient except that the sender is self-absorbed. Anise
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By: 2hawtboos on Saturday - August 28, 2010
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you know thinking about this more we kind of like the honesty that sort of request shows.......it is kind of "lets fuck no strings attached invite" as long as what you look like naked turns me on.........yes it is short and offensive to some ,but does cut thru the bullshit too......
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By: flowercouple94544 (Couple) on Thursday - August 26, 2010
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Jorge
I think it is perhaps compassionate to remember that for most of the men they must get really frustrated having to do all the back and forth and at the very end they get rejected. So they like to get to the point not really aware that they are being very rude. I suppose they figure that because its a sex site they can do that with swingers. I dunno really.
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By: curious1970 (Female) on Wednesday - August 25, 2010
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LMAO at the 2hawtboos
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By: 2hawtboos on Wednesday - August 25, 2010
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i got one of those mails too,but i just talked to Tim and he said he was sorry so it is all good
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By: curious1970 (Female) on Tuesday - August 24, 2010
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I also wanted to add to my previous comment that I had never chatted with this person before. His very first words were literally "do you like to get f***ed in the a$$". I just closed the window on him no reply.
When I get e mails like that I just hit the no thanks button that way my reply percentage stays good if they insist then there is always the block option.
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By: 2hawtboos on Monday - August 23, 2010
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there is always the "block" option........
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By: Tripn on Monday - August 23, 2010
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So when you get one of those nasty ass messeges from some rude fuck and are not gonna answer ,, does that mean your "reply to" percentage goes down too .. lol Not that I worry about that any ..
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By: myebook on Monday - August 23, 2010
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Guys buy porches,ferraris,etc. to make up for their lack of manhood. Knowing this why would anyone need a picture that they would have to blow up so large it would lose all definiton?
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By: CougarWoman51 (Female) on Saturday - August 21, 2010
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LMFAO @ 2hawtboos post about the hybrid :D he he he ! that was good.. and, i agree.. i hate getting IM's, texts, or msgs that are too crude or crass..really inappropriate.
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By: eastbay_couple on Saturday - August 21, 2010
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100% agree and this is the male in the couple...
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By: 2hawtboos on Saturday - August 21, 2010
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so the other day i blew this fool in a porche hybred off the road and could not help but notice the bewildered look on his face.......imagine my suprise to find it was Jorge! and now i know what he was thinking about......lolz
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By: curious1970 (Female) on Friday - August 20, 2010
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I agree with Jorge I know I am not on a christian singles dating site but come on show some manners. I got IM'd the other day and when I opened the IM window I was asked and I quote "so do you like to get f***ed in the a$$" not hi how are you hows your day. I like to talk dirty and to play even more but will not even dignify these people with a response. Thanks Jorge for bringing that up :)
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By: ladydi5150 (Female) on Thursday - August 19, 2010
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I totally agree Jorge... just because we are on a "sex site" of sorts doesn't take away the fact that we are people first! True - some people are like that no matter what but I think people for the most part are, shall we say, a bit more tactful generally! I know I've always tried to put myself across to others the way I'd like them to show themselves to me as well.
The human animal is quite complex but I think where our sexual needs are concerned perhaps a bit more thought and respect/politeness should be considered - that is if we truly are looking for that "form fitted" connection with someone. But most of all, BE YOURSELF!!! Don't try to be polite if you truly aren't like that normally. At least people will know what to expect in advance and will be able to make a better decision based upon that and any other information you give regarding yourself.
As the good book says....... "DO UNTO OTHERS AS YOU'D HAVE DONE TO YOURSELF!!!"
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